The purpose of self development is to Create Yourself and at dawn we are face by one and only one question, this eternal question stands up and looks at us in the eye. “How can I better my condition?”
That is a question of essence isn’t it, the real life question which confronts us, and will haunt us every day till we solve it.
All day long, from the minute our mind takes the trail early in the morning, until we quit the game late at night – we are trying to figure out ways to earn more money, to be loved, to be happy, to be healthy, to possess more ability, to be better at everything we do.
This is the one great heart and soul aim of which we are ever conscious – the mastery of our family, our business, our job, our life, the rising to supremacy in our line, the steady year in and year out increase of personal development.
THE PROCESS TO CREATE YOURSELF
WHAT YOU DON’T REALISE
There’s always something quite remarkable going on in life.
Of Every second of every minute of every hour of every day of every year it’s happening, it’s life happening all around us and It’s happening for a reason.
There’s a purpose behind it!
Yet most of us don’t know or don’t appreciate it.
You cannot read this blog without realising that the whole purpose of existence is growth that life is dynamic, not static. That it is ever moving forward not standing still. That our struggles, our joys, our sorrows and everything else not seen are all but different manifestations of the same infinite and eternal energy in which we ourselves lives and move and have our being.
Therefore there’s a mechanism in place, there’s a process that’s being undertaken, in life, by life itself and that process is the process by which we all live, and create the event as a means of experiencing and expressing. Who we really are?
That life exists in all of its forms. Whether big or small, sorrow or joy.
To illustrate this point Charles Haddon Spurgeon put it simply excellently.
“Everything that happens to you is for your own good.
If the waves roll against you, it only speeds your ship toward the port.
If lighting and thunder comes, it clears the atmosphere and promotes your soul’s health.
You gain by loss, you grow healthy in sickness, you live by dying, and you are made rich in losses.
Could you ask for a better promise?
It better that all things should work for my good than
all things should be as I would wish to have them.
All things might work for my pleasure and yet might all work to my ruin.
If all things do not always please me, they will always benefit me.
This is the best promise of this life.”
ALL THAT EXIST IS ONLY A VERSION OF YOU
The experience of a perfect love,
the sight of perfect night sky,
the wonder of walk in a garden of flowers,
the incredible expression of humanity itself,
the feeling of relieve and the explosion of an emotion of gratitude.
You can not hold them on your fingers but you can feel them throughout all fibre.
Because all these beauty remind of who you are.
Through them you are merely looking at ourselves in another form and also when we looking at other people we can relate and we say : there goes a human being, a wonderful being, a glorious being, a divine being.
It’s a process not only by which we experience ourselves as divine but by which we define what divinity is to us.
Can you imagine a process like this?
The process of recreating yourself it is by realising that the notion of accept and being the concept make the change you need.
“You can say to yourself that you are generous, but if you do not apply that your life and do something which shows generosity, you have nothing but a mental concept. You might tell yourself that your a kind person, but if you don’t live up to you do people a kindness, you have nothing but an a mental notion about yourself.”
By moving from notion to action, you are actually creating perfection through the process of being perfect as you are choosing to create it.
THE MIRACLE OF LIFE FLOWING THROUGH YOU
That’s what’s happening. That’s the miracle of life itself, flowing through you, in you, as is you and once you understand what’s going on, the divine process you take part in. You are then creating a brand-new you, not unconsciously but consciously, not unintentionally but intentionally, not accidentally but on purpose and you will see every golden moment as an opportunity to recreate yourself anew in the next grandest version of the greatest vision you ever held about who you are and if you can just do that only for a short time, for an hour a day, an hour a week, an hour a month, your whole life will suddenly make sense to you and you will touch the world in a way that brings sense to the world.
That’s how life itself changes and becomes the miracle it was intended to be and you decide to be the miracle you were intended to be.
OUR PLACE IN THE SOCIETY
We know we are not stranger to the dark. Hide away, they say Cause we don’t want your broken parts. Yes we’ve learned to be ashamed of all our scars. Run away, they say No one’ll love you as you are.
But we won’t let them break us down to dust. We know that there’s a place for us, because we are glorious in the pure sense of the meaning. When the sharpest words want to cut us down.
We are going send a flood, going to drown them out. As brave as we but we still get bruised. We are who we meant to be, this is me we say.
Yet if you knew Who You Are—that you are the most magnificent, the most remarkable, the most splendid being God has ever created—you would never fear, you will feel ashamed, you will never ugly. For who could reject such wondrous magnificence? Not even God could find fault in such a being. So everything start from the self-love.
LIVE FOR TODAY
Remember, today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday. For yesterday is but a dream and tomorrow is only a vision. But today well lived makes yesterday a dream of happiness And every tomorrow a vision of hope.
One day at a time-this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering.
It is not what happened to you that is matter but how you deal with it that is matter.
Everything that has a beginning, has an end.
I might I have been through hell and back, I might have been through few ups and lot of downs. But in this moment there are two things that never deserted me: my belief in my abilities to turn things around and the unshakable faith in God that everything will be alright.
“WHATEVER YOU DO, DO IT WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT Work at it, if necessary, early and late, in season and out of season, not leaving a stone unturned, and never deferring for a single hour that which can be done just as well now. The old proverb is full of truth and meaning, “Whatever is worth doing at all, is worth doing well.” Ambition, energy, discipline, perseverance, patience are indispensable requisites for success in life. Fortune always favours the brave, and never helps a person who does not help themselves.”
Trust me, the only time success appear before work, it’s in the Dictionary.
So go get success how you might have define it.
But for me as P.T Barnum said. – “The noblest art is that of making others happy”
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